Why I started posting about my spanking fetish

In this blog post I will explain why I have decided to share my spanking adventures (videos / pictures / stories) online! I've received the question quite often, so here's some context :)

As many of you might know by now, I'm a hard-wired spanko. But for the people who have been following me on Fetlife over the past few years, this might be more of a surprise. At first, I was somewhat ashamed of this side of me. I know that Fetlife is a safe place for such fetishes, but still, admitting to the world that you like to get your butt slapped was a next step for me. However, it was always in my profile text, but I had never really posted pictures on it before. I just posted my body, which I still love to do.

Besides this, I've had a few vanilla relationships in the meantime, which meant I couldn't really explore the spankings I so desired.

Beginning this year (2024), I broke up with my ex. With that, I told myself I finally wanted to explore my love for spanking and my deep-wired desires.

A few months after I broke up with my ex, I met up with a guy for my first ever real discipline spanking (read more about my first discipline spanking in this blog post). After this meeting, I just knew I couldn't live without it anymore.

We had filmed this first spanking, and the following times I visited him we filmed the spankings again. At first, just for us. I had no intention on making this available online. He had mentioned that he would be okay with me putting it online or trying to sell it, but I just wasn't sure yet. Then I started posting a few screenshots of the videos on my Fetlife, and the response was overwhelming. So many of you loved the pictures, which made me feel more accepted than ever. It made me realise that this is who I am and want to be. I love spanking, and that's nothing to be ashamed of. I started posting on Reddit and X too.

Then I decided to make the videos available on SpankingTube (previews) and SpankingLibrary (full videos). I never really thought people would actually be interested in seeing them - but apparently you all do love it! Of course, I earn a little bit of money with the videos, but this was and is never my first incentive. I try to normalise consensual spanking in this world. If you are a spanko; embrace it! Don't ever hide, don't settle for less. Find someone to play with and explore. I believe there's still a stigma on this, and I'm here to help break that.

After posting my videos on SpankingTube and SpankingLibrary, I created my OnlyFans account. I did this for a more personal experience and to be able to talk to all the other spanking enthusiasts. On my social media, I just can't keep up with all the messages everywhere, but on OnlyFans, I have a well-filtered view with people to talk to! Here, I really have the freedom to post and talk about everything, which has given me so much confidence. It's amazing to finally know that there are so many spankers and spankees out there - some outspoken, some exploring, and some (still) hiding it.

Posting openly about my experiences, making my videos available, and letting the world know I'm a spanko has opened many doors for me. Of course, some people have unfollowed me or given nasty comments - but I'm trying to ignore the hate and just focus on the positive. In specific on Instagram, I know that many of my followers didn't expect my fetish - and putting my links on my Instagram profile was the biggest step for me. I had no idea how everyone would respond knowing this side of me, especially since my pictures there are more art-focused... But on Instagram as well, I have received a lot of amazing positive messages. And I thank you all for that.

I made this side known of me, and made my videos available to help the impact / discipline / spanking / play community. To let people know that this is perfectly fine, perfectly normal, and perfectly hot. But above all, it made me accept myself more. And it still does, every day that I read positive comments I just know I made the right decision opening up about this.

Some exciting news will be shared here soon! And of course, new videos and stories as well 🤍

If you're into spanking stories, check out my website www.talkingspanking.com, where I'm posting weekly new stories - all free!